In April 2015, when I was 15 years old, I came home from getting my braces off to learn that my grandfather had taken his own life after fighting with anxiety and depression for many years.
My family and I felt a strange mix of emotions all at once: anger, sadness, and a looming feeling of isolation made all of us want to know why this had happened. I was reminded of this recently when my mom mentioned to me that while searching for comfort within Jewish texts, she found nothing that helped survivors of suicide loss deal with their grieving.
My family and I found the lack...Read More
I love the sounds of Jerusalem. The voices, noises, and music all tell stories that are unparalleled in the Jewish world – and perhaps in the world at large. One I find so compelling is that of my story and the story of the “other,” which I hear simultaneously.
There a variety of others in Jerusalem – Arabic, Russian, Amharic, Yiddish, and Hebrew – and over the course of a week, I can listen and hear these voices and countless more. It is one of the incredible characteristics of our city.
Join me on a brief tour of some of the other voices I am so fortunate to hear...Read More
Do you know the classic story of Chaim, who topples from a mountaintop and becomes ensnarled in a tree branch? Dangling above the abyss, he calls out, “Help! Help!”
A great voice from above booms out, “My son, do you have faith in me?”
“Yes. Oh, yes, Lord,” avers Chaim.
“Then let go of the branch,” bellows the voice.
“What did you say?”
“Let go of the branch,” repeats God.
A pause, then Chaim asks, “Is there anyone else up there?”
Joking about God takes a lot of chutzpah, a quality never in short supply among Jews. As the Yiddish...Read More
The Torah is a guidebook that unifies the Jewish people, provides a how-to manual to create the unique Jewish culture that is ours, and gives us a way to tell our story for the future – a gift with distinct and incredible power.
This week’s Torah portion, Parashat T’tzaveh, begins by dictating the process of adorning the Kohen Gadol, the high priest, Aaron, in priestly garments, including a special cape, colorful apron, golden plate for the forehead, and a breastplate with 12 precious stones....Read More
I am a lawyer. I graduated Harvard law school and have practiced law for major corporations and large law firms. It shouldn’t, therefore, have been much of a challenge when the Union for Reform Judaism’s Inclusion Working Group asked if I would give a talk about the law of disability discrimination and accommodation.
When I protested, having never practiced ADA law or its application to religious organization, I was gently reminded that I was not being asked to provide legal advice. Rather, I was being asked to look at the law and take lessons from...Read More