Rabbi P.J. Schwartz
Tu B’Av (the 15th day of the Hebrew month of Av) occurs between Tishah B’Av (the 9th day of the Hebrew month of Av, a day of mourning that marks the destruction of both ancient Temples in Jerusalem) and the period of personal reflection and introspection that ushers in the High Holiday season. Originally, Tu B'Av was a day of joy and celebration during the Second Temple period that marked the betrothal of unmarried women to their future husbands:
There were no better days for the people of Israel than the Fifteenth of Av and Yom Kippur, since on these days the daughters of Israel...Read More
Being a teenager is difficult. It is a time filled with all types of changes – biological and physical, social, emotional, and intellectual. What’s more, thanks to the expectations placed on them by society, parents, peers, and, frequently, the pressure they put on themselves, today’s adolescents are extremely prone to stress.
With days (and nights) filled with academics, extracurricular activities, sports, community service projects, religious studies, and homework it’s no wonder that today’s teens are more overwhelmed and worried about failure than their peers in past generations...Read More
One of my closest friends, Sam, is 5-years-old. On most weekdays at about 3 o’clock, he comes into my office, puts his Spiderman backpack and lunchbox on the floor, takes a seat, and begins our conversation.
“Rabbi PJs, let me tell you about my day.”
Sometimes, Sam brings his favorite toys for us to play with, tells me about something he learned that day, or whether he liked the story I read during our preschool Shabbat. Recently, he invited me to his birthday party, and I’ve had Shabbat dinner at his home. He’s been to my house for dinner as well.
Although I know...Read More
And Hannah wept. Feelings of loneliness consumed her, and she began questioning her self-worth. “What is wrong with me?”, she asked. “Am I not good enough?”, she pondered. Struggling with infertility, Hannah fell into the deep abyss of depression. Filled with sadness, anger, and frustration, she did what no one had done before. She made an impassioned plea to God, not simply praying for a child, but praying that one day she might feel whole again.
On each Rosh HaShanah, we read the story of Hannah, and are reminded that her plea to God represents one of the first personal prayers...Read More
As a rabbi, I find myself busily preparing for the High Holidays. Planning services, writing sermons, and organizing programming will fill the hours of the coming weeks to ensure that my congregants experience a meaningful and fulfilling High Holiday season.
What I had forgotten, though, is that the real preparation for the upcoming Days of Awe is the hard work I need to put into myself. In order for me to be the best model for my congregants, now and at any season, I must literally practice what I preach. I, too, am obligated to reflect and to consider, to examine the deeds of the...Read More
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