This is not a new question; I’ve been grappling with it my entire life, and especially since the pandemic started. And yet, during a transformative Shabbat experience in April 2020 led by Temple Rodef Shalom in Falls Church, VA, I found greater clarity on that question, which I expressed in a letter of gratitude to the temple’s two cantors:
“What do we owe each other during this more challenging time? For me, it is to think, speak, and act in ways that uplift the hope in each of us.”
I am continually struck by the enduring wisdom of Anne Frank, who said, “Our lives are fashioned by our choices. First we make our choices. Then our choices make us.” The words we choose to say hold power. What sort of life and world do we create by the choices we make every minute and every hour of every day? How do those choices support or undermine our collective responsibility for ?
It is said that we should pay kindness forward, but I believe we should do the same for hope. In this way, we continually uplift and inspire each other to act in the highest good of everyone.
Recently, my own hope was nurtured while participating in the Rosh HaShanah and Yom Kippur services led by Temple Israel in Long Beach, CA. Beyond inspired, I felt compelled to write to the temple’s clergy, executive director, and board president to express the transformative impact their services had on me. I told them:
As someone who is in the process of return to Temple Israel, I wanted to briefly share what a meaningful experience I had for Rosh HaShanah and Yom Kippur services.
First, I'd like to share my thoughts regarding the experience overall. Due to the care and intentionality taken by you and your team of volunteers throughout all aspects of the services (such as the stellar video taping and editing and choices around pre-recorded and live pieces), it helped keep us connected to the moment we were collectively experiencing.
As a result, the digital or tech piece disappeared largely or completely as we rooted into those precious moments of prayer, song, reflection, and togetherness. For these reasons, I found these experiences to be deeply spiritual and soul-enriching.
The choices around music and intentionality of when the cantor would solo and/or be joined by the chorus were absolutely key to building sacred space, connection, and community throughout the services. I felt my soul fly higher and higher on those angelic musical notes!
The rabbi's sermons were so thoughtful-provoking, hope-inspiring, and soul nourishing. What I found amazing was that the rabbi met us where we were (physically, emotionally, mentally, and spiritually), and as a result, I felt seen and understood. When I shared my experience with a Temple Israel member, she said my take resonated with her because she felt seen and her soul nourished to be acknowledged for our humanness.
Throughout the services, sermons, and musical experience, I was filled with hope. At times like these, we need more hope and connection, both of which were intentionally gifted to all of us who participated. When we are filled with hope, we can better fulfill our responsibilities to repair the world and advance social/racial justice & equity within our communities and country.
I am so very grateful! Thank you! Please feel free to pass on this note to any volunteer who you think would like to hear some gratitude.
Wishing you all my very best,
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