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    Mas-ei, Numbers 33:1-36:13
D'var Torah By: 

"This is what the Eternal has commanded concerning the daughters of Zelophehad: They may marry anyone they wish, provided they marry into a clan of their father's tribe. No inheritance of the Israelites may pass over from one tribe to another" (Numbers 36:6–7).

We first meet the daughters of Zelophehad in Parashat Pinchas when they are granted inheritance rights from their father in the absence of any sons. As trailblazing as it was for them to argue for and succeed in receiving inheritance rights, the end of Parashat Mas-ei qualifies this victory by mandating that they must marry within their tribe. This legislation serves to protect tribal lands in a society that was committed to and balanced upon the tribal system. A mandate that restricts who one can marry is problematic.

Like Zelophehad's daughters, we in the Reform Movement are inheritors of a tradition that champions the prophetic vision. We challenge the status quo, speaking truth to power when necessary, and allow Torah to guide our sense of right and wrong. In the tradition of Zelophehad's daughters, the Reform Movement has repeatedly challenged the status quo, establishing new norms for the practice and expression of Judaism worldwide.

While Zelophehad's daughters stand out due to their actions and the very fact that they are even named in the text, we meet other, equally impressive women in our Torah who pave the way and blaze trails. Just as the fourth book of the Torah concludes with women, the Book of Exodus begins with strong female forces. In Parashat Sh'mot we meet Shiphrah and Puah, the two midwives; Moses's unnamed mother and sister, later identified as Jochebed and Miriam; and Pharaoh's daughter. These women all are instrumental in saving children's lives and thus they are key in moving our collective story forward. They, like the daughters of Zelophehad, are courageous, resourceful, and daring. As a result, they change the course of history for the ancient Israelites, and for the Jewish people. With five significant women beginning the Book of Exodus and five ending it in Numbers, our journey out of Egypt to this moment when the people are poised on the threshold of Canaan is masterfully bookended by strong women.

In Proverbs 6:20 we read, "Do not forsake your mother's Torah." We would be remiss to read our sacred text with little to no attention to the contributions and role of women throughout. Even when women are not mentioned, there is something to learn: omission, too, speaks volumes. Women are prominently featured in the Book of Numbers, from the case of the wife suspected of adultery (Numbers 5:11-31), to the laws that determine which vows a woman must honor (Numbers 30), to laws of inheritance when a man has no sons but only daughters. As my teacher Rabbi Dr. Tamara Cohn Eskenazi points out, the story of Zelophehad's daughters, "depicts a situation in which a Torah law emerges not from Sinai but from the women themselves."1

The profound impact of women in Torah has birthed a wealth of poetry as moving as the women it seeks to honor. Take the following piece entitled "Miriam" by Marsha Pravder Mirkin, based on Exodus 2:4–8, where Miriam hides at a distance as Pharaoh's daughter discovers the baby Moses in a basket:

I hid by the river, a young lioness, crouching,

ready to jump, keeping myself still. And then

she came—the princess dressed in her golden

clothing. . . . That day changed my life and the life

of the princess. I was no longer simply Moses'

sister, and she was no longer simply Pharaoh's

daughter. We were God's daughters, an army of

resisters, with our weapons of love and faith. 2

Despite the impactful role of women in our sacred text and the changes they initiated, there were times in which the patriarchal nature of our tradition and the text could only bend and stretch so far. That is why we, inheritors of this tradition, standing upon the shoulders of those who came before us, must continue to argue for what is just. This means advocating for the right of every individual irrespective of race, religion, sexual orientation, or economic position to enjoy the same privileges and joys of marriage under the law. Perhaps we who are the descendants of all of the brave women of Torah can build upon their legacy by continuing to stand up with courage and grace for the rights of all people to live freely and in God's image.

  1. Tamara Cohn Eskenazi, ed., Andrea L. Weiss, assoc. ed., The Torah: A Woman's Commentar, (New York: Women of Reform Judaism and URJ Press, 2007), p. 788
  2. ibid., p. 329

Rabbi Laurie Rice is co-senior rabbi at Congregation Micah in Nashville, Tennessee, where she shares the pulpit with her husband, Rabbi Philip "Flip" Rice.

Journeying To . . . ?
Davar Acher By: 
Jeffrey Kurtz-Lendner

How often in our lives do we find ourselves on a journey, yet unsure of the destination? Sometimes it seems like we are just spinning our wheels, busy, journeying solely to get through each day so that we can complete our tasks, get to sleep and begin again tomorrow. We turn on the cruise control and take it off only when the GPS gives us directions to change course, regardless of where that course takes us. Instead of creating our own course, we follow the course that seems to carve itself out in front of us.

Mas-ei , the name of this week's Torah portion, means "journeys." The path of the people of Israel wandering through the desert after their release from Egypt is provided in great detail beginning in Numbers, chapter 33.

I'd like to share with you a kabbalistic commentary from Siftei Tzaddikim, written by twentieth-century Iraqi-Israeli Rabbi Salman Mutzafi :

"This world is called the world of repair. People always need to repair what they did in the past. Angels are said to be standing because they are always on one level, having no need to repair the past. However, human beings are always journeying between levels, and therefore the Torah says, 'these are the journeys of the children of Israel.' Any time the Torah says, 'these,' it refers to the undoing of earlier actions, because past actions always need correcting. A wise person guards these, to make sure that earlier actions are repaired." (trans. from Hebrew, Rabbi Jeffrey Kurtz-Lendner)

The Hebrew word for "repair" is tikkun. We have the obligation not only to repair the flaws we have in our own lives, but also to become partners with God in repairing the imperfections in the world.

The values of the Torah serve as our GPS to keep us on a journey with direction. Our ancestors wandered through the desert under God's direction through the leadership of Moses. They repaired the errors they made caused by generations of slavery, moving toward the Promised Land, all the while governed by our holy values of the Torah. Although our ancestors may have thought they were wandering aimlessly, journeying in circles, they were in fact journeying with Divine purpose.

For us today, this purpose includes repairing the errors in our own lives and using the values of Torah as a guide to living a fulfilling life. We must craft a meaningful life of repairing not only our personal lives but improving the world through deeds of loving kindness in our community. Why? Because that is where God's GPS tells us we must go, for the good of the people of Israel, and the entire world.

Rabbi Jeffrey Kurtz-Lendner is senior rabbi at Temple Solel in Hollywood, Florida.

7/26/2014
Reference Materials: 

Mas'-ei, Numbers 33:1-36:13
The Torah: A Modern Commentary, pp. 1,222-1,250; Revised Edition, pp. 1,117-1,133;
The Torah: A Women's Commentary, pp. 1,013-1,036