Mazel tov on your upcoming wedding. Although different rabbis may respond differently, nearly all Reform clergy would be happy to work with you. Reform Judaism has a long and proud history of supporting civil marriage equality and supporting clergy who perform Jewish weddings and commitment ceremonies for same-sex couples. Many Reform rabbis and cantors will be happy to officiate at your wedding. Depending on the rabbi or cantor, and on your wishes, the ceremony can have both traditional and creative elements. Read ReformJudaism.org's wedding articles to begin learning about and planning your Jewish wedding. Beyond Breaking the Glass - A Spiritual Guide to Your Jewish Weddingis a wonderful resource for today's couples.
The Eternal One spoke to Moses, saying: "Speak to the Israelites and say to them: If any men or women explicitly utter a nazirite’s vow, to set themselves apart for the Eternal,they shall abstain from wine and any other intoxicant." - Numbers 6:1-2