Jewish tradition gives structure to many aspects of mourning as a way to create order at a time when mourners may feel unmoored.
Unless you know
what it is to look
at black & white proof
at lambs led to slaughter
at herds of the lost
One of my most precious possessions is a copy of the Talmudic tractate Kiddushin printed in Munich in 1946 on presses once used for Nazi propaganda.
“On Rosh HaShanah, the year’s decree is written, and on Yom Kippur it is sealed, who will live and who will die…”
Nothing is more intimidating than leaving your comfort zone, facing a mix of new people, routines, and cultures – especially when you're doing it alone. I’ll never forgot how it felt when I left for college, a New York girl heading to school in the Midwest.