Five Ways to Observe Yom HaZikaron Outside Israel

Kate Bigam Kaput

Yom HaZikaron, Israel’s Memorial Day, is a deeply somber time in the State of Israel. An American Reform cantor who took her sabbatical in Israel writes,

In Israel, it's personal.

There is nothing remote or symbolic about Yom HaZikaron for Israelis. It is the day when you remember specific people in your family, or your friends, or [people] in your friends' families. It is a day to remember the people who graduated from the same school as you, or those who were members of your community.

Though many of us in North America don’t have the same connection to those who have died in service to Israel, we can still observe Israeli Memorial Day as we mourn from afar those who gave their lives to protect the Jewish State.

1. Observe two minutes of silence.

Most Israelis observe the day by standing at attention for two minutes at 8:00 p.m. Israeli time the night before and at 11:00 a.m. the next morning. For those 120 seconds, life in Israel comes to a halt as Israelis stand quietly remembering and honoring their fallen soldiers.

2. Say a prayer for Israel.

Israeli activist and poet Anat Hoffman wrote "A Prayer for Israel," which is perfect for Yom HaZikaron. Recite it with your family, your Jewish community, or even just by yourself. It's the remembering that matters.

3. Attend a community ceremony.

Many local Jewish communities host ceremonies on or around Yom HaZikaron as a means of gathering together in mourning and remembrance. At these ceremonies, the names of the dead are often read aloud.

4. Wear a yizkorYizkorיִזְכֹּר"Remember;" memorial service held on Yom Kippur and on the last day of Pesach, Shavout, and Sukkot.  (remembrance) sticker.

On Yom HaZikaron, many Israelis wear a special yizkor sticker to show their respect for Israel’s dead. Download and print your own sticker, or share the image on social media to encourage others to remember fallen soldiers and terror victims.

5. Make a donation.

Whether you donate to your synagogue or to your favorite Jewish organization, making a donation in the name of all those who have died in Israel is a tangible way to observe Yom HaZikaron and strengthen the Jewish people. We invite you to support the Reform Movement in Israel through a generous donation. You can also find ways to stand with Israel on our Updates and Resources page.

How will you observe Yom HaZikaron?