Rabbi Lisa S. Greene has served North Shore Congregation Israel, Glencoe, Illinois for 25 years. She loves creating ritual, teaching and writing about it. Her ELI talk, Getting Ritual: Making Meaningful Jewish Moments, focuses on new Jewish divorce ritual. Rabbi Greene has written for HuffPost, Reform Judaism Blog, MyJewishLearning, OSRUI blog, CCAR Press, Eat Darling, Eat!; Kveller, The Wisdom Daily, and her personal blog, Intersections.
In the weeks leading up to my civil divorce, I delved into Jewish tradition to see how I could mark it Jewishly. I'd been married under a chuppah with the exquisite blessings of our tradition; simply marking my divorce in the Cook County courthouse was not going to suffice.
Growing up, I saw Yizkor as a mysterious event on Yom Kippur afternoon. The grownups would return to temple in the afternoon, while my sister and I stayed home. There was no explanation, just an understanding that this was a thing our parents and grandparents did, and we did not.
The parashah for this Shabbat is a fundamentalist’s nightmare. This week we read the lollapalooza granddaddy of all the off-the-wall Bible stories. It’s so preposterous it makes splitting the Red Sea look like child’s play. This week Balaam, the seer, is riding on his she-ass to deliver a paid-for-in-advance imprecation
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