Answers to Jewish Questions

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Can I say the Mourner’s Kaddish for Non-Jewish Loved Ones?

Answered by

Rabbi Ellen Nemhauser

Jewish people can say the Mourner's Kaddish for loved ones who are not Jewish. Many Jewish individuals have close family members from different backgrounds and religions and it is appropriate for Jews to observe mourning rituals for their loved ones.

What Can We Do For Those Who Can’t Reach the Mezuzah?

Answered by

Rabbi Joseph B. Meszler

How do we enable a person who uses a wheelchair to show their reverence and gratitude by kissing the mezuzah and show their feelings like Jacob?

Kombucha is made using a fermentation process. Is it kosher for Passover?

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Answered by

Rabbi Julie Zupan

With the caveat that we are not kombucha experts, we think kombucha is okay for Passover.

Are There Design Guidelines for a Menorah?

Hanukkah menorah with donuts, dreidels and gelt

Answered by

Rabbi Julie Zupan

I want to make a menorah as a gift for a good friend of mine. If, due to design constraints, I cannot make the candle holders vertically uniform, would that be an issue?

Which part of the Torah portion is chanted on Shabbat each week?

little girls looking at open Torah scroll

Answered by

Rabbi Julie Zupan

Is there a suggested part of the parashah to chant each week?

I’m planning an unveiling. What do I need to know?

Answered by

Rabbi Julie Zupan

My mother passed away in late November and I am planning the unveiling. I was thinking of a day in May, June, or July, and I think it should be a Sunday. Are there any specific times or dates I must avoid?

I feel drawn to Reform Judaism but I am a queer woman who suffers from depression and anxiety. Is there room in Reform Judaism for someone like me?

Answered by

Rabbi David Fine

How wonderful that you are seeking to find a religious home – not just a place, but one that resonates with your soul. Not only is there room for you in Reform Judaism, but we welcome you – with open arms, heart, and mind – and we need you! You have a lot to offer and we look forward to meeting you and to getting to know you!

Can I Get Married between Rosh HaShanah and Yom Kippur?

Answered by

Rabbi Julie Zupan

Although Jewish weddings may take place on the days in between the Jewish High Holidays, it is generally discouraged because during that period, also known as the Days of Awe, we are focused on the solemn themes of the season.